There is some disagreement about the exact site of the G-spot or if it even exists. It's important not to make a big deal about trying to find it! The term refers to a place on the ‘roof' of the vagina (as the woman is lying on her back) about 1/3 of the way in. You or your partner can find it by inserting 1 or 2 fingers into the vagina when aroused and pressing firmly against the upper wall until you find a small lump that may increase in size as it is stimulated. A few women reach orgasm in this way, others do not find it at all arousing or pleasurable. Some find no lump or sensitive area. All are normal!